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POV: Date with the standards for men 2019
Created for an Expanded Media Comedy Project Ledesma Introduces Darius, FKA Lil D; the embodiment of what many people may come across for their first or most dates. Now it is no secret that today the dating world can be pretty brutal during this time of dating apps, social media, refusal to heal, poor boundaries, and situationships. Have you also been a victim of the “don’t catch feelings” scam? Many of us settle for the bar not even being able to pass the bare minimums while women are expected to meet very high standards. Growing up around television shows where women are considered humble and down to earth for not having high standards and men can disrespectfully get away with just about anything and still expect to get the girl of their dreams. You must cook, clean, be educated but not too smart, be independent but not offend men’s egos, be in shape, meet their “type”, be spontaneous while maintaining the “cool girl” attitude, be their manic pixie dream girl but remain their object on a pedestal. Then again it’s almost a lose-lose situation for women because even if you settle for Lil D it can still be your fault for ignoring his red flags.
Thankfully today persons who have came across this type of behavior have now raise their standards and seek finding happiness without having to mother and cater to men like Lil D.